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Trauma Healing Class
~Free~
facilitated by Amber
Kirdzik
Are you a woman suffering from daily anxiety and nervousness? You are most
likely experiencing post traumatic stress disorder. We have all been
through events that were painful and harmful. Our bodies carry the
imprints of what happened. Good News -
there is a way to heal the nervous system and clear the body of energy.
Holistic practitioner, Amber Kirdzik,
specializes in helping women who have trauma and PTSD. Having been through
trauma herself, she has learned first hand about healing. She has studied
in Peter Levine's Trauma and somatic experiencing program. Learn the tools
and techniques for returning to calmness and balance, a gentle way to release
emotions and clear the body of blocked energy.
This class will greatly improve your ability to feel calm in everyday life!
Sunday, March 21, 2010, 2:15 - 3:15 pm in the Retreat Room. Call to
reserve a space: 928-203-1092 or 203-915-3581.
What is Trauma?
Trauma is very misunderstood, therefore rarely healed
correctly. Most have the perception that trauma is only caused by a major
event or huge automobile accident. These are in fact traumatic events.
But what gets overlooked are the less noticeable events, such as a divorce, mean
siblings, falling off a bike, getting a cut etc. These "smaller" trauma's
have the same effect on the nervous system and emotions. You may have
feelings of anxiety, fear, depression, grief, sadness and/or anger. They
may come up at times that there is nothing going on at all. There may be
certain events that make you panic. Certain things may trigger you into
feelings such as social situations, places in your home, leaving the house or
going in the car. This is not because there is something wrong or harmful
in the present. This is because your nervous system is still living in the
past when the trauma happened. Trauma is stored in the body and nervous
system, which you feel strongly at certain times. You have not fully
processed it and allowed it to disperse. So it will continually resurface
and cycle in an effort to complete the process and heal itself. But until you
gain tools to do so you cannot.
How is Trauma Supposed to be?
This may sound funny, but there is actually a healthy
process that is a natural response to traumatic events. Trauma is only bad
when not fully processed and stuck in the body. Let's take a look at how
nature intended the response to go. Animals in the wild are in balance and
intact with their natural rhythms and responses. They react to trauma in a
way that re-teaches us how to heal. Say a lion is chasing a zebra.
The zebra sees the lion it's body automatically knows it must fight or flight to
survive. This is the built in response all animals have including us.
The zebra's adrenals produce a lot of energy and he takes off like a bolt of
lightening. Luckily he escapes, all the energy has been releases in the
run. He gasps for air, calms himself and breathes normally after a little
while. He is back to normal he is not traumatized, nor does he have post
traumatic stress. His instincts are still there and he knows that he must run
from lions but does not live in a panic state. This is a good example of
the process. He used the energy and released it.
There is also a freeze response that we use when we cannot fight/flight for
whatever reason. Say a rabbit is being chased, he knows he is too slow to outrun
the fox. So he freezes and plays dead, and the fox turns and runs the other
direction. When the threat is gone, the rabbit shakes and moves out of the
frozen state. He comes back to himself then runs around bounding for the success
of survival. He produced the energy he needed, used it then expelled all the
frozen fear and adrenaline after coming back. He was clear then ran around again
full of happiness. We do not often heal like this, but it is in each one of us
to heal and is our natural process. We have just forgotten it. We must learn to
re-regulate our nervous systems which are out of whack. When we gather the tools
we need by looking inside, we no longer need all the stimulants and depressants
needed to try and regulate ourselves. Because we heal what is wrong. The rule in
the somatic program I took was that if you have a nervous system today in our
society, you have trauma. We often deny it until it becomes so bad that we can
no longer ignore it. However thank yourself for a least realizing it and taking
the fist step to heal.
Healing Trauma
The main principles in healing trauma effectively and
fully are to regulate the nervous system. This means going very slowly in your
process. It means taking very small pieces at a time. You want to become more
calm and relaxed. Whatever that takes. You develop resources which are things
that are comforting to you soothing and are non-activating. Things like taking a
bath, walking on the beach, riding your bike, being with your dogs, sewing.
Whatever it is each person has their own things that are their resources.
Working on a physical level is very important too. Making sure your body is
imbalance is important for balancing the nervous system. Eating healthier,
reducing the number and amount of drugs, stimulants, and caffeine. Getting
enough exercise reduces the amount of charge or nervous energy in your body.
Once you are more in your body and you do not have the false cloud of drugs and
stimulants in the way you can clearly see yourself, your problems and what you
need to heal. Your body will amaze you when you give it the space and time to
heal. You will know what you need and be able to give it to yourself. You will
also feel better and need less and less things in your body to relieve you,
because you have healed. You may think you will never feel good without taking a
certain drug. But believe me, you will never feel better than living on your own
healthy REAL energy! You owe it to yourself! Let me direct you to your path of
healing!

About Amber Kirdzik
I have studied at Heartwood Institute in Northern
California. There I learned to structure of healing, Traditional Chinese
Medicine, Acupressure, Tai Chi and healing with whole foods. Then I went on to
study with the Foundation for Human Enrichment. It was founded by Peter Levine,
who is a pioneer for trauma healing and has come out with this breakthrough to
heal trauma and regulate the nervous system and person.
For further information please contact
Sedona Creative Life Center
928-282-9300 |